The Reemergence of Franny

Well not so long ago Franny was a big part of my life, then she went nuts and decided to pull away as a friend. Which really meant we never talked IRL or on the phone. Back before all of that there was a incident on Facebook with one of her "friends". Basically he decided to be a dick and start bad mouthing me so when I retaliated (which happened to be on her page) she got pissed. So being the bigger person, I deleted all my rude comments. All the while all she had to do was DELETE the thread, since as she said it was "Her Page" Anyway that is the back story which brings us to the latest.
    Franny posted a link about Obama calling Michael Vic's people and congratulating them, and said she didn't want to comment but for everyone else to feel free to. Well within a matter of hours her Brother In Law was in a fight with a low life foul mouthed friend of hers. This friend was calling her BIL names and cursing at him. This went on for about 70comments. I just happened to read through and at the end wrote, "Wow last time I got in a fight like this with one of "Franny's" friends, it ended much like this one." Her BIL "liked" my comment. So my comment must have set her off because she deleted the thread and then the next day she deleted me.
   I took a few days to think it over and sent her a message asking what I did to deserve that, after all my comment was innocuous. No response. So I decided a week ago I would go ahead and be the bigger person, because come on folks we aren't in High School anymore, and should be able to resolve this like adults. Right? Well the answer if WRONG, I sent her an email saying that I was sorry for saying or doing something that hurt her feelings, and what do I get, another Delete. That's right she BLOCKED me from her Twitter account. I mean really? How old are you Franny? 38? My 13 yr old son acts more mature than you do!
   So anyway, I just had to vent about how childish she is being. But I do think that it is so hilarious that I get under her skin so bad that she has had to ignore,delete and block me in all ways of communication. I bet if I called her I would get ignored. LMAO, Oh well her loss. I have a lot more friends now that she is gone, and my life is better in so many ways. I hope that one day she will find the peace that she needs in her life.

Incommunicado

Jerkalicious

  OK, so I would like to pose a question for you all....if several of you called me on my birthday, and I didn't call you back...would I then be a douche?
  So I have this friend Big Daddy..that on his birthday, my hubby called him on our road trip to wish him a Happy Birthday. We hadn't heard from him in a while(mainly because they moved a little further north), so we thought it would be nice to talk to him. So of course, like many other phone calls to him it goes to voice mail. Now we have been friends with Big Daddy for years and yeah this is typical behavior for day to day calls, since we saw him on a nearly day to day basis. So no biggie right. A week goes by and the hubby finally gets a text message from him on his Xbox saying "Thanks for the Birthday Wishes, Hope all is well on your end." This guy is supposed to have been my husbands best friend. Ironically, he is married to Franny, so yeah they are a match made in heaven.
  I just don't get how someone that you were really good friends with can suddenly just turn off that friendship. Now I know a lot of you are saying well maybe he is a busy man. Well no... that is why they moved an hour away, so that he could be closer to his job and be at home more with his family. So when 5 O'clock hits...he's on the road for his 15 min trek to the casa. And he is always off on weekends.
  The hubby isn't broken up over it, but it really pisses me off. For the last few months we have had to say "It is what it is" to deal with how dead that friendship has gotten. But really how freaking hard is it to call back and say "Hey man I missed your call the other night, because (insert douchey reason here) but I just wanted to call ya back and say thanks for remembering. How have you guys been?" Then find some lame excuse to let him go, and be done with it.
  I have a problem with inconsiderate people. But really when the chips are down and all the bridges are burned he will find himself all alone with his just as inconsiderate wife.

-Match made in Jerkalicious Heaven



 

Judgemental a bit?

This is from Franny's post "...I can barely handle two pre-teen girls, I can't fathom what the hell she (Dugar) is thinking..."

First off the Lady that she is talking about is Michelle Duggar. 

So here is my problem with her (Franny, not Mrs Duggar).  Her and her friends bash this lady about having so many kids. Ummm really I didn't know it was against the law to have children. If you are able to have them and can afford to take care of them and not live off the government, then why the hell not! Their family unit seems to be one of the best that I have ever seen portrayed on reality television. And they aren't trying to be John and Kate plus 8 either. This is a honest to goodness Christian family. So what if the older ones take care of the younger ones.  I was the youngest of 3 children and my older brothers took care of me while my parents worked.  If you have a problem raising your children then maybe you should write to her and ask her for advice. Maybe you could learn a bit from her.  

I truly admire Jim and Michelle Duggar for their family values! They are just living proof of how it all depends on where your priorities lie. Their priority is their family!
I hate it when people think down on others because they do not understand.

-judgmental people suck

Let's get this Blog started!

So here I sit with my first blog entry. I needed a spot that I could say all those nasty mean things that I want to say to and about a few people in my life, but sense they're all "friends" on my other pages I'm resorting to blogging.

You know who they are and I'm sure you have a few of them in your life. The best friend who decided she didn't want to be BFF's anymore because you have an opinion of your own and it didn't come from her. So now she calls this other woman her "bestie"...really I just threw up a little in my mouth. Really how f-ing old are you? And when they call each other "Rockstars" you just want to write "Really you guys need to get a room"

I know, I know....bitter party of one right. But honestly since (hmm lets call her Franny) so since Franny has moved I have found out what it means to have true friends. You know the ones that love you no matter what and will give you the bra off their boobs if you needed it. I do still keep in touch with Franny, and have been out to her house a few times. A few of my good friends ask me why I do that, but truth is I am either a sucker for punishment or I'm the most true friend a girl could have.

I am one of those friends that accepts you with all your faults and flaws, because lets face it that is who you really are. The friendship with me and Franny has always been a weird one though, and trust me you will here a lot more about her in the future. Maybe I will dedicate a blog just to her!